Engines have a lot of moving parts that wear and is not standing still just circulating hot water.
The moving parts don't come into contact with water, with the exception of the thermostat and the water pump, rather like a central heating system.
CH systems have worse electro-chemical chacteristics than vehicles, ie steel+copper+steel+copper+steel+copper etc.
Stewart, Trianco, Wilson, Thorn, (in the UK) and others. All of these boilers I have see at 20, 30, and 40 years old and they're still working.
The check valves used in plumbing systems are very low cost compared with their industrial counter parts. I am surprised you don't seem to have regulations to control the configuration of heating systems.I assume you have looked at the link regarding backflow in water supplies? With your experience you will know that problems don't occur when things go right, but when they go wrong, and as an example (for whatever reason) just look at the rudder control valves on the Boeing 737.
With your extensive experience in the aircraft and automotive industry you will know of the amount of development work that goes into products, I am also aware of the marketing devices used by companies, but the automotive antifreeze manufacturers don't expect their products to come into contact with water that people might ingest.
I have an engineering history that is much wider than just the heating industry, but I don't see that that is relevant.
If you want to use an automotive product, it might be worth asking a manufacturer if they would recommend it's use for domestic heating systems.
I'm too much of a wimp, if someone asked me to supply CH antifreeze, I would not supply an automotive one as I don't think I would have much support when my neck is on the block.
This is my last post on this thread as I feel you ar looking for confirmation that a low cost automotive product will be OK in your heating system, and from what I know I could not support that view.