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Hi all, after a spot of advice.
bear with me, let me go to the start. Grab a cuppa, might be a long one.
So, wife and I moved into our house December 2017. Once we were in, we thought it a little odd that the neighbour seemed to be using a bit of driveway we thought to be ours. Now, it was only a small bit, and keen to not rock the boat of the little cul-de-sac we decided to leave it for a few months and see if it was just a mistake, and have a little search our side in terms of boundary lines.
Fast forward a few months, and sadly the neighbour has passed away. Once of her children is now in the property and I believe will be selling in a few months - perhaps of course, haven't really spoken a massive amount about it being absolutely none of my business.
I approached her a few months back in as polite way as I could, suggesting that the space between our two driveways is in fact ours.
the black triangle above is the area in question.
We had our neighbour round last month, to have a friendly chat about it, they agreed that it appears to be ours and would move their car. Happy days.
Fast forward to now and yes some of the car collection they had have indeed been moved but they seem to be making a point of parking directly on this area again. When questioned by the wife she was met with "oh it's not as simple as we thought but can't speak about it"
That's the last we've spoken about it for the last few weeks as we've had a load of other work going on at home so we thought we'd give them the benefit of the doubt.
Now, we're at the point where it now feels like they're taking the ****.
I'm intending to get myself round there this weekend to get a firm understanding of what's going on i.e. "yes sorry, we'll move" or "no, bugger off we're keeping it, get yourself a lawyer"
if the latter, how is best to proceed? I mean they perhaps had an agreement with the previous owner of our house - although this was not mentioned on the bill of sale and there is nothing listed on the land registry in terms of an agreement of any kind. So even if an agreement was in place, I see no need for me to honour it.
I of course will utilise legal professionals should I need to but would prefer not to have to spend a bloody fortune to be told what we are already fairly sure of. It's ours!
Annoyingly i'd be quite happy to meet in the middle somewhere and suggest that if they wanted part of it to make parking a little more convenient then so be it we can live with that to make things easy all round, but being as this is a cul-de-sac and parking is at a premium that extra space is the difference between 2 parking spaces infront of my house and 3, So whilst it's not a huge space in itself it does make a huge difference to the practicalities of our house.
any thoughts? we've been told an initial visit from a local solicitor would be £200+vat and then £100 per hour thereafter... Can easily see this spiralling out of control purely because they are being a pain. Now, of course if they put it up for sale this becomes very simple - i'll contact the agent and let them know of the dispute. But I'd really rather an amicable result. Shame they don't appear to be on side.
bear with me, let me go to the start. Grab a cuppa, might be a long one.
So, wife and I moved into our house December 2017. Once we were in, we thought it a little odd that the neighbour seemed to be using a bit of driveway we thought to be ours. Now, it was only a small bit, and keen to not rock the boat of the little cul-de-sac we decided to leave it for a few months and see if it was just a mistake, and have a little search our side in terms of boundary lines.
Fast forward a few months, and sadly the neighbour has passed away. Once of her children is now in the property and I believe will be selling in a few months - perhaps of course, haven't really spoken a massive amount about it being absolutely none of my business.
I approached her a few months back in as polite way as I could, suggesting that the space between our two driveways is in fact ours.
the black triangle above is the area in question.
We had our neighbour round last month, to have a friendly chat about it, they agreed that it appears to be ours and would move their car. Happy days.
Fast forward to now and yes some of the car collection they had have indeed been moved but they seem to be making a point of parking directly on this area again. When questioned by the wife she was met with "oh it's not as simple as we thought but can't speak about it"
That's the last we've spoken about it for the last few weeks as we've had a load of other work going on at home so we thought we'd give them the benefit of the doubt.
Now, we're at the point where it now feels like they're taking the ****.
I'm intending to get myself round there this weekend to get a firm understanding of what's going on i.e. "yes sorry, we'll move" or "no, bugger off we're keeping it, get yourself a lawyer"
if the latter, how is best to proceed? I mean they perhaps had an agreement with the previous owner of our house - although this was not mentioned on the bill of sale and there is nothing listed on the land registry in terms of an agreement of any kind. So even if an agreement was in place, I see no need for me to honour it.
I of course will utilise legal professionals should I need to but would prefer not to have to spend a bloody fortune to be told what we are already fairly sure of. It's ours!
Annoyingly i'd be quite happy to meet in the middle somewhere and suggest that if they wanted part of it to make parking a little more convenient then so be it we can live with that to make things easy all round, but being as this is a cul-de-sac and parking is at a premium that extra space is the difference between 2 parking spaces infront of my house and 3, So whilst it's not a huge space in itself it does make a huge difference to the practicalities of our house.
any thoughts? we've been told an initial visit from a local solicitor would be £200+vat and then £100 per hour thereafter... Can easily see this spiralling out of control purely because they are being a pain. Now, of course if they put it up for sale this becomes very simple - i'll contact the agent and let them know of the dispute. But I'd really rather an amicable result. Shame they don't appear to be on side.