Iwanttodiy,
I would be careful with: "Using pea gravel I can get few bags of
sand and do a 1:2pea:4sand mix".
"Ballast" is designed so it has a continuous mix of gravel sizes from sand to small rocks so that when mixed with Cement every void is filled with rock. This makes for all the stones to lock together to make a strong mix.
Mixing
only two gravel sixes together makes for a weaker mix.
And can leave sharp single stones that could protrude and break a paving stone.
So only Pea Gravel and Sand is a bad idea.
If you have a lot of pea gravel I would say
start with a 1:2:4 (cement: pea gravel : ballast) mix, noting that I said ballast not sand, as this will go in the hole first. And when Pea Gravel all used up move to the 1:6 (cement: ballast) mix that will then go on top.
If you do use sand under patio, note that it is never "builders sand" (which is for mortar between bricks) but must always be "sharp sand" as this again locks together better.
Note that this instruction link shows the method I think you are using:
https://www.bradstone.com/advice/laying-guides/how-to-lay-a-patio/
Which is a Foundation bed of 1Cement:6Balast and then a mortar bed of 1Cement:6SharpSand.
SFK