Well, Schroeder has said he is prepared to compromise and have a review of all EU funding if the UK is prepared to renegotiate the rebate in this review.
So, the two big economic powerhouses of Europe, the two main contributors who between them contribute more than twice as much as the rest of the EU put together (even more if you don't include the rebate), are demanding a review.
Seeing as between us we are contributing two-thirds of the money, I say that's a two-thirds majority in favour of a review.
As to paying to develop poorer countries: why should we? I have no trouble with them spending money to improve basic needs such as water, or things that could benefit all of Europe such as fuel supplies. But why is there a need to give them motorways?