...'Does this mean there is play in the hinges?'...
Yes
...'Will those plastic youve suggested fit the majority of standard design UPVC windows?'...
They are universal, the pvc profile/system used for the openers has incorparated whats called a 'euro groove', this groove is used to house the locking mechanism, take a look and you'll see it, it'll be 16mm wide and about the same deep, this runs right round the opener because its the same section of pvc profile, the wedge with the little peg on it goes on the opener, the peg just stops it deforming when you tighten the screw, fit it so th widest part faces you, the other wedge fits on the frame, there is not groove for this so locating it in the correct place is unfortunately trail and error, fit it so the widest part is facing outwards (opposite to the other) when you finally the the correct placing the wedges should rub against each other and pull the pvc profile tighter on the rubber.
There is nothing I need to do with the seals then if they feel ok?
If they feel ok leave them, there are a multitude of shapes and sizes of rubber, too thick means it throws everything out and the opener becomes hinge bound, the lock is too stiff to lock.
Check out euroseal, there may be illustrations somewhere on their website giving cross sections and sizes