1) The rewire should be done very early on, before any decoration/replastering/repairing or replacing floors etc. Are you living there or having this done before you move in? An empty house devoid of furnishings where power does not need to be restored each day, and the electrician can use dust making machines on the walls, will be quicker & therefore cheaper to rewire.
2) Not sure about spotlights - however you slice it they are inefficient in terms of how well they light the room. Start looking for luminaires which take fluorescent lamps, not CFLs, with high frequency control gear, and consider dimmable ones and maintained emergency ones for landing/stairs/hall.
3) Uplighters outside? Why?
4) Specify that all wiring is to be in conduit for ease of future changes.
5) Think hard about where to have sockets - it's difficult to have too many, and also about what circuits to have. The items on the list below won't all apply to you, but they are worth thinking about:
- Upstairs sockets
- Downstairs sockets
- Kitchen sockets
- Radial for appliances
- Cooker circuit
- Non-RCD circuit for F/F
- Non-RCD circuit for CH boiler
- Dedicated circuit for hifi
- Dedicated circuit for IT equipment
- Upstairs lights
- Downstairs lights
- Immersion heater
- Loft lights
- Shower
- Bathroom circuit
- Alarm
- Supply for outside lights
- Supply for garden electrics
- Supply for shed/garage
Plus any peculiarities brought about by your house layout & construction – e.g. in mine because of solid floors and where the rings run, I have a radial just for a socket in the hall, the doorbell and the porch lights.
Plus a few spares on RCD & non-RCD sides for expansion beyond that for future unforeseen needs.
Consider also specifying a CU with separate sections, not a split-load, to increase the granularity of RCD protection, or the extensive use of RCBOs on a per-circuit basis.
If you live somewhere where supplies are dodgy in the winter, have the lights, the boiler supply, and a socket in each room wired to a separate CU, or a separate section in a large one, that can be supplied by an emergency generator - lights, heating, TV and a kettle/microwave make life a lot more bearable.
6) Not an electrical topic, but if you are doing a major refurb, complete with plumbing all through the house, have a sprinkler system installed.