I think I have a foot in both camps here. After a string of company diesel Peugeot 807s, someone cocked-up and ordered me a petrol one. It was AWFUL!!! Slower than the diesel (in any practical sense of the word), LESS refined, and did a good 10 miles to the gallon less than the diesel. Yes, you could make it perform a BIT quicker than the diesel, but only by ragging the living daylights out of it in every gear.
On the other hand though, I have a 25 year old petrol Alfa V6...
...which is an utter joy to redline at every available opportunity.
Like everything else, I think there are good and bad examples of each sort of engine. The PSA petrol engines do nothing for me. Very lacklustre engines that run out of puff at about 5000 revs, such that there's just no point in going anywhere near the redline. Italian petrol engines, on the other hand, seem so willing.
The sad truth of the matter though, is that diesels are worse for oxides of nitrogen and particulate emissions, petrols are worse for CO2 an unburned hydrocarbons. Alas, no easy answers.