I would like to extend the house into the loft, and add 2 bedrooms and a bathroom.
You cannot possibly, unless you are virtually certifiably insane, even think about doing that without Building Regulations approval.
Therefore....
From you I need suggestions on a suitable fuse box that can service al requirements.
No - from us you need it pointing out that you are going to have to use an electrician, a registered one (probably - unless you want to needlessly pay more money to Building Control), and that therefore you should leave it up to him what to do about replacing the CU.
To extend into loft it will need the involvement of Building Control, to add electrics to the submittal price wise depends on if it will move the cost into the next band, it could cost nothing, and it will cost less than just doing electrical work. My area first step is £2000 worth of work so new sockets in a kitchen can cost same as full require on council charges, but that is not a problem when added to other work.
What is more of a problem is getting the council to accept you have the skill required. They may simply say no, or they may require the installation to be over seen by some one they have selected to ensure it meets the required standards, or they may decide that your qualifications are good enough for you to sign the installation certificate, and if they were you would not be asking questions on here.
So in real terms it is likely cheaper even when you are already involving building control to use a scheme member electrician. However even using an electrician he will need instruction on what you want and how important it is to you that from time to time power will be lost due to earth leakage or spikes on the supply which can trip a device sitting near to the limit.
Standard cables all have earth wires, and capacitive and inductive links mean some power is wasted, it is very little and nothing to worry about, but it means the more cable you have the more power naturally leaks to earth, the more the installation is split up into circuits with independent RCD protection the less the problem is with circuits tripping.
The problem then becomes knowing a circuit has tripped. Although both my fridge/freezer and freezer have little blue symbols to show they have power, lack of those lights is not something which tends to alert one of a power failure. However seeing the landing light come on as the emergency batteries take over in a power cut is rarely missed. And during the night loss of lights is a good indication of power loss. A simple emergency torch on same circuit as freezer is enough to alert one. Having said that mothers house has a kitchen CU with 5 RCBO's which have never tripped, the RCD covering wet room has, but not the RCBO's likely simply because less cable on the circuits.
The X-Pole RCD claims to trip at 90 ~ 100% of rating rather than 50~100% and also has a warning lamp to show when nearing the limit, it is claimed to not trip with spikes on the supply line, so all 30 mA and 40 ms RCD's are not equal. But the problem is still price, you have to balance price and inconvenience. The electrician can't do that for you, he can only guide you.
I am not a scheme member but I am fully qualified to do a complete rewire including inspection and testing, and I have access to all the test equipment. However I will still pay a scheme member electrician to rewire my mothers house. By time I have paid the LABC it's just not worth DIY.