Tattoo

[securespark]

Break up with him.

He waited until she accepted his proposal.

He said "when" not "if".

How insecure do you have to be to feel threatened by a dead husband and son?

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/weird-news/my-fianc-demanded-tattoo-honouring-26861494

Edited to replace news source.

 

[securespark]

Interesting this got no replies.

 

[Dork Lard]

Interesting.

Not really, no.

It comes across as just another journalist verbally masturbating.

 

[The Samaritan]

Slightly OT but realted. When I first started working for soc services in my 20's, it was staggering what I found behind peoples closed doors.
The house/property and even the people looked as what I can only describe as, you'd not give them a second glance as they appeared to be ordinary people. However, once I was in, property could stink of dogs, cigs, crap etc and/or there was abuse/intimidation/control/etc going on.

Everyone is different but to demand that of her dead husband and son is a new incredible for me at least.

I dont read 'reddit' only hear about it in the gutter press like this.

If someone needs advice on something like that, I'd be worried.

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[just pumps]

Interesting this got no replies.

Interesting that you decide to bump it after it failed to score the first time. Are you retired.

 

[securespark]

Nope. Sometimes I think posting stuff early or late results in little or no interest.

 

[The Samaritan]

Interesting that you decide to bump it after it failed to score the first time. Are you retired.

So what???
Do you have nothing better to do and as you asked if he was Retired" - I'll ask you to confirm if you are still on benefits based on your comments here
as you appear to have nothing worthwhile to contribute.

Chill Bos

 

[conny]

Quite simply, the guy is insecure and feels as though he will be compared to the late husband in everything he does.
And it does happen in a lot of cases which is often why second relationships don't stay the course.
If you truly love someone you accept them for who they are, not what you want them to be, and you accept each others baggage as well. If you can't/won't accept that then the relationship will not be a happy one and probably won't survive. Even less chance if the 'ex' is still alive.

 

[The Samaritan]

Quite simply, the guy is insecure

Insecure is the woman that is writing about it as anyone with an ounce of sense does not need to ask anyone for advice as it's a no brainer.

 

[conny]

No, the insecure person is the bloke. He feels threatened. She is a bit doubtful she may be wrong to keep the tattoo. I'm pretty certain if this was put to a poll the majority would be for her to keep the tattoos as a memory to her late husband and son. They were a very important part of her life and cannot be erased just because a current boyfriend tells her to. That is the mark of a potential gaslighter, especially if he stands his ground.

 

[The Samaritan]

Let's get real mate, both are insecure. The bloke for reasons that everyone is aware of and the woman having to think about it.
Once the tats are removed, next thing is he'll be stopping her from talking to men, then women and then he'd keep her home 24/7

Year ago a guy from greece staggered me when we were talking about women. I was in my early 20's married to my ex and she worked as well. As we is talking I asked where his wife worked the bloke was a lot older than me poss close to 40. He said "my friend my wife does not go out to work...you cant trust these men....so she works from home sewing....." The thing is this bloke leered at women and felt ladies from the west were easy going..
So I asked him she does not go out alone. He said takes children to and from school if he cant do it so i said what if she talks to another man there - he said she did not and he really believed it.

 

[securespark]

Wow.

There has to be trust in a relationship.

Without trust there is nothing.

 

[transam]

Pair of fruit cakes imo

 

[securespark]

Why?

 

[Lazzy]

fruit cake for believing this boll** tbf