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My father-in-law lives next door but one, and my mother lives 6 miles away, both in their 90’s and I want to monitor specially for my mother how she is.
Now I have a spare PLC so fitting door switches and PIR’s to show where they are is not really a problem, but to get that information back to my house is.
I installed a camera at my mother’s house which uses “Hubble” to relay the picture and sound, but it some times does not work, and so we can’t rely on it. There is internet broad band at my mother’s house and it would seem that would be best system to relay info between the two.
I expect there are alarm panels, or other devices like the “Nest” and “Hive” which will send info either to PC or phone. I would have thought the local authority adult social care could have advised me, but it seems they have a monitoring service, but this still uses a phone call though the standard phone line and although it will take over the line from the cordless phones in the house, any wired phone off the hook will stop it working. It also seems to be somewhat deaf and when my mother got stuck I could hear her shouting help with the pet cam but the monitoring service claimed they could not hear her when the camera and their unit were in the same room.
I have needed to travel to my mother’s house many times where the monitoring service has called us because they said the panic button had been pressed but in fact it was my mother who had got out of bed and not returned within the set time, it seems they have no idea why the alarm has been raised.
I am not keen on the camera, being able to hear is enough, and being able to talk to mother would be even better, I have considered Skype and having a PC with remote access from here so I could answer the Skype call and talk to her without needing her to answer the phone. But I failed to get remote desktop working even downstairs to upstairs so between two houses is beyond my ability. Got it to work with XP but not with Vista and Windows 10.
I expect there are alarm panels which tell the owner when things have happened and it may be I can use one to tell me at least what room my mother is in. But which one and how easy are they to set up? Clearly don’t want to pay silly money, but can still spend quite a bit especially if also can be used for other uses. For example if I can get remote desk top I could select and play movies for my mother.
So what ideas do you have? If father-in-law was not next door but one I would go to live with mother, but don’t want to become separated from my wife to look after the two 90+ parents.
Now I have a spare PLC so fitting door switches and PIR’s to show where they are is not really a problem, but to get that information back to my house is.
I installed a camera at my mother’s house which uses “Hubble” to relay the picture and sound, but it some times does not work, and so we can’t rely on it. There is internet broad band at my mother’s house and it would seem that would be best system to relay info between the two.
I expect there are alarm panels, or other devices like the “Nest” and “Hive” which will send info either to PC or phone. I would have thought the local authority adult social care could have advised me, but it seems they have a monitoring service, but this still uses a phone call though the standard phone line and although it will take over the line from the cordless phones in the house, any wired phone off the hook will stop it working. It also seems to be somewhat deaf and when my mother got stuck I could hear her shouting help with the pet cam but the monitoring service claimed they could not hear her when the camera and their unit were in the same room.
I have needed to travel to my mother’s house many times where the monitoring service has called us because they said the panic button had been pressed but in fact it was my mother who had got out of bed and not returned within the set time, it seems they have no idea why the alarm has been raised.
I am not keen on the camera, being able to hear is enough, and being able to talk to mother would be even better, I have considered Skype and having a PC with remote access from here so I could answer the Skype call and talk to her without needing her to answer the phone. But I failed to get remote desktop working even downstairs to upstairs so between two houses is beyond my ability. Got it to work with XP but not with Vista and Windows 10.
I expect there are alarm panels which tell the owner when things have happened and it may be I can use one to tell me at least what room my mother is in. But which one and how easy are they to set up? Clearly don’t want to pay silly money, but can still spend quite a bit especially if also can be used for other uses. For example if I can get remote desk top I could select and play movies for my mother.
So what ideas do you have? If father-in-law was not next door but one I would go to live with mother, but don’t want to become separated from my wife to look after the two 90+ parents.