I've installed a couple in two previous properties a bit smaller than yours (1 bed and 3 bed) The units I had were made by Rega and the last one was installed about 15 years ago. They were OK, but I don't have experience of anything else to compare them with in a domestic sense, (I look after some Mitsubishi Lossnay units at work which are pretty impressive but they are industrial and cost a small fortune!)
So here are a few things I learned:
Design is the key. Air entering the property from the inlets needs to be able to flow freely throughout the property to the extraction points. So, the positioning of the inlet and outlet points is vital, otherwise only small areas will be ventilated properly. The temptation is to run the duct where it's easy, but that may mean that the vents are not located in the best places.
In particular the bathroom extraction point should be diagonally opposite the door to the room where the replacement air will be coming in from.
I added a switch to turn off the inlet air fan in the summer when I didn't want heat recovery. During the summer it acted just as an extraction system and also saved energy by not running a second fan.
The property needs to be as airtight as possible so that the only movement of air entering and leaving the property through the system. Open windows is a 'no no'. (Except for during the summer when the inlet fan is switched off.)
For the air to flow freely through the building internal doors need to allow air to pass unrestricted from room to room, so I had to trim a few mm from the bottom of a couple of doors that had a tight fit on a fitted carpet.
With the first system, I left the fresh air inlet open in the loft as recommended by the Rega instructions. However, because air was being continually removed from the loft and cold air was coming in from around the eves to replace it, the loft got extremely cold. So, to avoid freezing pipes, I installed an intake duct to the outside. But because of being a bit lazy, I located it a bit too close to the outlet, so that it picked up some of the kitchen smells and returned them to the intake. A swift relocation soon sorted it out.
Do I have one now?... No, because Mrs Stem insists on having some windows open 24/7 even throughout the winter! My current property also has 2 chimneys which would provide a source of air external to the HRU. Also, whilst we found the HRU great for general use, we did find that at times of heavy kitchen use, the system didn't really provide sufficient extraction over the hob.
Hope my observations help.