Well thats done.
Turned flow/return off & drained via the DHW exchanger.
Took side off, undid all the fittings on the diverter, removed the top plate.
Why is it that the hardest to get to screw is always stuck really fast? (which is why I removed it all)
Removed the diaphragm, cleaned out the entire diverter inc the bottom rod (its got a bit rusty at the top).
Nipped out for the silicone grease.
£6 quid! and I only wanted a pea sized amount, still it should do for the next hundred or so replacements lol
Reassembled it all, refitted the diverter valve.
Removed diverter valve & disassembled it all again when I found this really big spring on the worktop.
Used plenty of grease on the rods.
Cleaned the ends of all inlet/outlets thoroughly (using a plastic scourer rather than wire wool).
Replaced the fibre washers while refitting.
Unfortunately turning the water back on, the return pipe valve as it joins the boiler started leaking.. damn.
Went & bled the radiators & opened the upstairs taps to let the water flow.
Made an almighty clunking noise when it was turned on so I turned it off, read the commissioning instructions & left it for a 10 minutes with heating off & not drawing hot water to allow the air settle.
Also noticed eventually that the hot water temp sensor (I think) had a lead fallen off, refitted it & everything works fine.
(bled the pump too)
Refitted it all, tested the taps upstairs. took a while to get hot but eventually became hotter than its been for a long while.
Put heating on, went & had nice shower.
The leaky return valve now appears to have stopped, will keep an eye on it.
Hopefully it will remain OK till after xmas.