Maybe it's been gone over, but you don't need an air gap at all there, you just need enough space for the membrane to drape between the rafters so the water doesn't get stopped by the tile battens. On that note your membrane is a bit on the tight side.40mm air gap:
Yes something like that, not sure the exact specification of the splay but they have some drawings of their suggestion.By splay do you mean come off the window at 45degrees?
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