I wanted to update this thread in case anyone else discovers it - we went with a combi in the end and 3 months in couldn't be happier.
We can run 2 showers perfectly fine and haven't had any issues in that regard. The space saving in the loft and cupboard has been very useful and our costs have reduced significantly. It's nice to not have to be putting the water on and having an endless supply seems like a big quality of life improvement.
We had a couple of leaky rad valves and some issues balancing the rads (they switched the direction of flow) but all working fine.
We never did figure out why the outside tap is 20 l/min and inside is 12l/min but our showers are plenty good enough coming from 3l/min.
We can run 2 showers perfectly fine and haven't had any issues in that regard. The space saving in the loft and cupboard has been very useful and our costs have reduced significantly. It's nice to not have to be putting the water on and having an endless supply seems like a big quality of life improvement.
We had a couple of leaky rad valves and some issues balancing the rads (they switched the direction of flow) but all working fine.
We never did figure out why the outside tap is 20 l/min and inside is 12l/min but our showers are plenty good enough coming from 3l/min.