I wouldn't have though that either. However, the resistance of the TNS circuit changes between 8 and 1.2Ohms with the operation of the boot light (it has a switch on the side of the lamp). My theory (which may be apocryphal or at least, wildly inaccurate) is that maybe the short isn't making a very good connection and so has quite high resistance, so with the voltage drop of the lamp, allows it to fly just under the tipping point of the fuse.
Where the tailgate hardness pops out of the rubber boot and into the main body, there is a connector that plugs into the harness running along the roof of the car. I pull the two apart but it didn't help.
According to the circuit diagram, the TNS relay feeds into the jointbox where there are separate feeds to the two front side lights and a third feed to the rear. Hopefully I can disconnect these to see which is playing up.