Nonsense. Only on your estate boyo.
A cockney accent?
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But they grow up, move circles of friends, become young adults.....
I don't think I've treated either of mine any differently, but as the one is four years older than the other, they are at different developmental / influenced stages of their lives.
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Try living in the real world, and get a grip, fantasist.
Sorry, but I have to question as to what estate you live on. Kids lately have no respect for anyone other that the bigger bully or the one giving them what they want.
I got a slap from mum and dad, Every neighbour was an an auntie xxxx and we did as we were told. When the local tip closed after 6, we would raid the bins. Police came and slap me round the head or put me in the car and would take me home to my parents. I am not saying it was better then, but we did have respect. It's now a laughing joke to say phuck the police. Even teachers have no authority. God bless anyone wanting to teach a class of 35 animals without a whip.
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Of course they do grow up different to a certain extent.
But if a kid is becoming more 'gangsta' because of that, then surely not treating the children the same is the answer? Sounds like extra help/guidance is needed.
Who is going to employ these kids who can't speak properly?!
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Where do they learn the lack of respect though? Sounds like many a parent has lost control. There's not really anyone else to blame is there? Flippin hard being a parent, that I agree with.
Does lack of parenting change your language to wigger?
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Parents job is to correct it.
Kids need to be able to get a job after school!
Kids need to be able to get a job after school!
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It's 2020, not 1980.How are kids going to get a job after school, when some of their parents can't get jobs ? Parents seem too busy now, how often do you see kids in prams with phones/pads, connected to the internet? That is their way of interacting and learning, and parents have minimal control.
I think you're misunderstanding me. My kid isn't gangsta, just yam-yam!
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I'm not being funny, but that's not an excuse. If parents are too busy to actually parent then they shouldn't have them.
I could argue that parents have a responsibility to their children, as well as society as a whole to bring up good human beings. The internet is fantastic, but it also has massive pitfalls with children. Losing the art to chat, going out in fresh air, getting fat. As the parent buys and is in charge of the internet then there is nobody else to blame - that's absolute, not minimal control.
It's nothing to do with being 1980 or 2020 because each generation has it's own set of issues, it's everything about being a good parent.
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Yeah, wasn't really talking about yours - but I've seen parent's not give the kids that need guidance more the time.
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It's not an excuse, but it is what happens. Sadly, I think not allowing some people to have kids may attract some criticism.
The local drug dealer unfortunately.
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