Looking again the final decision is to pull it all down and start again. Low bricks are blowing, high placed bricks are blowing. We plan on staying for years so time to get some quotes to rebuild properly with bitumen back, damp course at the bottom and decent bricks. We will paint it afterwards becuase it looks nicer so I am not restricted with bricks we choose.The membrane down the back is a good idea. I always use bitumen or similar waterproofing paint on the back of a retaining wall, a similar idea. Paint is probably preferable as it soaks right into the bricks and can't get punctured. But it probably won't work on one that's already been buried so is muddy. There will always be a route from the bottom of the membrane up behind it via groundwater pressure, as its bottom edge won't be attached to anything.
Definitely get some gravel behind the membrane too. Ensure there's a path to the drain holes, and that they don't get blocked by the membrane. It may (will) move after being buried.
I'd still be concerned about the render/plaster detaching, it's a risk but only time will tell. The risk-free answer would be rebuilding with decent bricks. It may sound like a more drastic course but in reality your builder's approach is still a lot of work and materials, there may be less difference between facelift and rebuild than you'd think.
Weathered LBC bricks remind me of pink wafer biscuits, once they start eroding they don't want to stop.
@noseall (or anyone) it looks like just plain grey engineering bricks ontop of your walls. How do you stop water ingress through the concrete gap between each brick or with a half decent brick underneath isn't it such a issue ?.
I'll have a look on the forum if theres and tradespeople nearby to chelmsford.
thanks again
Kev