Yes I think giving your age (mental or otherwise!!) helps the process slightly, but I dont like my actual age so i say im 27! Maybe your music taste would give a clue too. I must admit, i do have an image of alot of men looking like hillbillies! I may not be far off the mark with some but apologise to the others! it would be weird if you did meet up and you found you had actually been talking to someone you knew!