I got banned from a forum x years back. There was a thread about women getting attacked when walking home, mainly at night. I mentioned something along the lines of 'unfortunately where possible women, anyone for that matter, need to think about walking home with another person when it's dark/night.' I literally said something along those lines.
Went on next day, I'd received a 3 day ban. I was genuinely puzzled as to why. Emailed admin. Response came back along these lines 'we don't condone victim blaming on the forum.' I replied saying, as far as I was aware, I wasn't victim blaming. I was simply stating when walking home at night, it makes sense for women and for that matter men to try and avoid walking home alone for their own safety.'
Without any further reply, they banned me.
Unless I'm missing something, the mods on that forum were completely conflating my statement about trying to be safe with victim blaming.
This is my point. Today and increasingly, if we try to discuss/debate anything that doesn't fit a certain narrative, we're deemed to be ist. It's their way to shut down the debate ... which they know has a thread of truth in many cases.
Went on next day, I'd received a 3 day ban. I was genuinely puzzled as to why. Emailed admin. Response came back along these lines 'we don't condone victim blaming on the forum.' I replied saying, as far as I was aware, I wasn't victim blaming. I was simply stating when walking home at night, it makes sense for women and for that matter men to try and avoid walking home alone for their own safety.'
Without any further reply, they banned me.
Unless I'm missing something, the mods on that forum were completely conflating my statement about trying to be safe with victim blaming.
This is my point. Today and increasingly, if we try to discuss/debate anything that doesn't fit a certain narrative, we're deemed to be ist. It's their way to shut down the debate ... which they know has a thread of truth in many cases.