O.P., if you have a mid position actuator, you may as well try and use it as it is paid for. Now you know the boiler does not do 'mid position', the orange and grey are the same as your old actuator, and make the switch when the live feed opens the valve fully.
drawing on the right has a microswitch that operates at end of travel and grey makes with orange
Perhaps I am not seeing something, how does grey connect voltage onto orange in left diagram
I would be tempted to fit a two port actuator on the three port body to replicate the operation. I could well be way off the mark on that as I have not looked at the Boiler manual.