I asked for some advise, I got a resounding NO, what gives?Yes. You do seem extraordinarily determined to cut your nose off to spite your face.
Yes, and the reviews for it are outstanding. (Link)It's one transformer with three windings. The Web page describes the wiring. There are inputs for the left and right speaker wires from the amp, and a single output to connect to the mono speaker.
I particularly like the first one where he advises using 8ohm resistors in series with each channel.
Thanks for your helpI'll just carry on with my original plan and hook the speaker to one output and mono the source in software.