And your point is.....
Are you saying that folks who display Christmas decorations should not be allowed to do so because some people may be offended or find them tasteless?
Should the same ridiculous restrictions be placed upon the arts, music, car paint, tents, radio, television, alcohol, drugs, fashion, external house finishes, blah, blah, blah.
However, i agree that there is an area of middle ground that the majority of folk would say is "acceptable" and anything beyond is over the top.
So, wind yer neck in and accept that there are lights and that no amount of whinging will change it.
As for the crass over the top ones - just look away or deal with it.