For someone who admits that your first post is pretty good .Hi,
Ive never posted on a forum before and im not that good with computers
As my father always said, civility costs nothing. I don't post anything on a forum that I wouldn't say to anyone in person, and I certainly wouldn't just tell anyone to get lost as for me it means I've lost the argument, and yeah, I have (some) ego and don't really want to lose the argument.BUT that advice must of been squeezed in between all the times hes belittled, berated and basically made to feel unwelcome anyone who disagrees with him or asks a daft question. and some are daft... but theres a way of responding.
Oddly enough I've only met one in person. People in the trade generally don't behave this rudely as they want your custom. When someone is rude on forums here I get the impression that they are not at the customer-facing side of the business and either work in an office or are retired or something else.Ive met people like him before.
Yes. Complaints concerning direct insults are presumably ignored by the forum admins, even though the forum guidelines are quite clear on this. If they were upheld he'd have been banned by now I'm sure. Most people, desperate for advice unfortunately just bend over and take it from him because he does actually know something. The problem for him though, is that there can be 100 of him, so long as you have a thick skin and keep asking the one good guy will answer your questions, so I would urge you and anyone else reading to not lose heart from his rants.times hes said to new posters 'ur not welcome here' or something along those lines and really some of the regular posters should put him in his place.
The problem is that there are a bunch of regulars that step in and back him up regardless of how rude he is whereas the dozens of victims just visit the site to get info and then clear off, so there is no solidarity amongst them.
I suspect that you've also made dozens of people on the receiving end of his vitriol feel slightly better about the situation, so whether you change his attitude is beside the point. You're making you view known, and that is always (to me at least) welcome on a forum, even if a little off-topic.So thats it really ive had my rant, im under no illusions it wont change his attitude but i feel better.
Cheers,
S.