Fair enough, from one BFF to another BFF.
I don't consider us sufficiently well acquainted to consider ourselves BFF's.
And I saw it as a personal and insulting question with a whiff of prejudice behind it.
Hey
Very cold but sunny outside.
The supermarket was starting to pack up so we had a quick lunch there, lovely fish n chips and a cuppa.
Bought back some yummies, OH is preparing cuppa, cakes and light warming a chilled ready-made sandwich.
You don't decide who I am BFF with or not and that is a fact.
You may have seen it as you wish possibly because you are limited in your social skills. Nothing untoward
with asking questions and the responder always has a choice if to respond or not that is if
they have the capacity to consider that option.
Take care, BFF.