You are taking all this a bit simply, you need ridge vents without a doubt, you need around 120mm in total of Celotex or Kings etc. You would normally fix however much you can between the rafters then the rest below with the plasterboard under, you need to ensure your rafters are up to the job of caring the extra load. As mentioned you need to check the existing ceiling joists you are proposing to remove are not working as ties for the roof. You have given too little information for anyone to realistically answer these questions. Rafter sizes, spans, centres, same for the joists, are their purlins, what sizes etc etc. With regards to the felt, remember that any leaks from a slipped tile or whatever will show up in your ceiling as leaks.