Which is as per the diagram that ColJack posted above. Whether you have ceiling roses, choc-block (as shown) or 4-way lighting JBs is irrelevant, the cabling at the switches is the same.Back to the original problem: The garage has two 100w bulbs and two single switches. Operating either switch turns on/off both switches.
Which is as per the diagram that ColJack posted above.Looking at the far end switch - two gray cables are used. The first is a flat dark gray 4 core cable and the second is a lighter gray 3 core cable.
Yes - that will be a normal twin & earth drop cable, as per the diagram that ColJack posted above.The lighter cable seems to come from the one of the lights
No - that will be a 3-core & earth linking the two switches, as per the diagram that ColJack posted above.and the dark gray comes from (i think; not verified) from the mains supply
Basically Barry you are going to have to put some effort into reading the information provided, studying the diagrams on this site (//www.diynot.com/wiki/electrics:lighting) and learning how lighting circuits are wired. They aren't complicated, and once you understand them you'll never have problems again, but trying to do jobs like this without knowing how they work is leaving you doomed to permanent failure.