Thanks for your replies!
I had a local drainage firm visit this afternoon, and he took one look at the murky water in my inspection hole i dug, and after a bit of discussion said our soakaway has had it. He talked about a method of building another soakaway further down the field, going deeper into the ground and using some special cube shaped modules instead of stone which dramatically increase the capacity.
He's gone away to make me a quote, but some things still arnt answered in my opinion. He skirted round my questions about lifetime, as i assume, like me, he doesnt think the new soak away will be any more effective long term than the old one.
He said the effluent colour was normal, which i had thought was the case (septic tanks are NOT treatment plants, they release highly toxic effluent which requires secondary treatment in the soil, having a very high level BOD and SS mg/l and a soak away doesnt provide this in most cases... mine is acting like another tank!) oh, and my tank is an onion, which apparently produces lower quality effluent
he also told me a treatment plant could discharge into the ditch at the end of our drive, if the EA approved. but these things are damn expensive, even the cheaper units that install after the tank start at nearly £2K, im not sure i could even find 1K at the moment.
i'm avoiding building control for now, as i'd rather they didnt know what has happened. Since the previous builder has bluntly claimed "drain fields have a short life, yours has come to an end, and you need another. i didn't guarantee it, so take no responsibility" i have very little comeback on him, and even less of a budget to make these repairs on... the house itself went way over budget and still isnt completely finished, this is the last thing i wanted. oh, and to make matters worse, one of the only people i can find locally who pumps tanks, and usually does ours, has gone for a weeks break... so im not sure what we are going to do in the meantime, i certainly dont want waste water backing up on the drive.
i'm considering borrowing a neighbors digger, and digging up the old soakaway... i will probably have to pump the water in the pit out, but then maybe i could dig deeper, hopefully to a better draining layer of soil, and put the soakaway back in, delaying the inevitable for a good year or so, while we find funds to get a treatment tank.