following on from this thread(rip dad)

[big-all]

//www.diynot.com/forums/viewtopic.php?t=241333


just to tell the world,

my dear dad passed away this morning at 4.25am,
after all his pain and suffering he is now at peace.

i would just like to say many thanks for being my dad for the past 31 years,it was and honer and privillige to have known you.
love you m8 miss you.

mate you absolutely have my simpathy my dad died monday morning he was 78 fit and healthy 12 weeks ago went to the doctors with a burnt thumb feeling quite poor 4 weeks later decide it its more than a infected thumb lots off test later send him to the specialist because is memory is begining to suffer results where delayed twice due to recent bad weather sees the specialist last tuesday on his birthday verl lucid and allert lots off family pictures around weak grandad
keemo in 2 weeks?? dead 6 days later riddled with cancer

dont want to highjack gregers thread so please just answer to greggers post i will start a new thread with a link to here
//www.diynot.com/forums/viewtopic.php?p=1839759#1839759

 

[conny]

To Gregers and Big All,
my heartfelt condolences to you both on your sad loss.
Its never easy when we lose a loved one but it seems even harder at this time of year.
May they both Rest In Peace and be free from pain and suffering.

RIP

 

[vv2806]

My condolences, Gregers

 

[wreckedit]

My condolences to gregers and big-all

 

[Bahco]

My commiserations too.

I lost my father on Xmas day 1992 but it seems like yesterday, Remember the good yrs you had together.

 

[Blasphemous]

My commiserations too.

I lost my father on Xmas day 1992 but it seems like yesterday, Remember the good yrs you had together.

May I just echo Bahco's words gregers. No words 'really' make any difference though (unfortunately I know).

 

[jrplastering]

sorry to hear about your dad greggers i know how you feel i lost my dad a year ago on the 4th of january, somehow christmas doesnt feel the same especially when my little girl asks where grandad is

 

[gregers]

sorry to hear about your dad greggers i know how you feel i lost my dad a year ago on the 4th of january, somehow christmas doesnt feel the same especially when my little girl asks where grandad is

crap aint it,told my youngest yesterday,he took it quite badly curled up in his bed and sobbed his heart out,he then said does this mean grandad wont be playing ball/catch with him again,WOW did that make a lump in my throat,
ive now got to put my grief to the back of my mind as its my youngests birthday tommorrow aswell so for his sake ive got to put a happy face on for him(now thats goner be hard)almost feels disrespectful,but i know my dad will be there with us in spirit.and as my boy deserves a good day im determined he has 1.

attempted to register his death today,had to make an appointment for the registrar,CHRISTMAS BLOODY EVE,then got to walk round the corner to the funeral directors,hey thats goner be fun as well.NOT.

BIGALL,not many people can actually say IM SORRY M8 i know what your going through

 

[conny]

Gregers and Big All,
you are right about people saying sorry, it is so easy to utter the words but they are so inadequate.
Both of your fathers were of a bygone age where men were considered the 'Head of the Family' and they commanded and deserved the respect that we paid them.
But they were also men of courage who at their age witnessed, and possibly helped, to eradicate the barbarity of certain people in this world. They did this so that the likes of you and I could live in a world where happiness was their gift to us. They knew that when their time came you would grieve for them but they would also want you to fully partake of their gift of freedom by living your life to the full and making sure that your children, their grand children, would grow up in a loving family environment that they wanted for you.
Gregers, enjoy your sons birthday, laugh, play and be merry with him for it is what your dad would have wanted you to to do. Grief can take a long time to subside, a brief moment of that time spent with your son will too soon be gone so enjoy it. You know in your heart its what your dad would want you to do because he too loved your son as his own.

 

[big-all]

sorry to hear about your dad greggers i know how you feel i lost my dad a year ago on the 4th of january, somehow christmas doesnt feel the same especially when my little girl asks where grandad is

crap aint it,told my youngest yesterday,he took it quite badly curled up in his bed and sobbed his heart out,he then said does this mean grandad wont be playing ball/catch with him again,WOW did that make a lump in my throat,
ive now got to put my grief to the back of my mind as its my youngests birthday tommorrow aswell so for his sake ive got to put a happy face on for him(now thats goner be hard)almost feels disrespectful,but i know my dad will be there with us in spirit.and as my boy deserves a good day im determined he has 1.

attempted to register his death today,had to make an appointment for the registrar,CHRISTMAS BLOODY EVE,then got to walk round the corner to the funeral directors,hey thats goner be fun as well.NOT.

BIGALL,not many people can actually say IM SORRY M8 i know what your going through

i tried to get you to join my freinds list but bu66erd that up lol

are you an executor off the will or not ??
have found out quite a lot by reserch if you are an executor can you let me know
and by the way you need to get several death certificates any you need to send away will need origionals or wait it return
any way please answer as i have several points if your mum is still alive it wont matter

 

[Deluks]

CHRISTMAS BLOODY EVE, then got to walk round the corner to the funeral directors

Do it next week, or if you've booked the appointment postpone it til next week. Otherwise you'll be worrying, and have your head in brochures and leaflets over christmas weekend when you should be watching telly with the family and munching away on quality street.
This weekend is a few days off that you certainly deserve.