The most constructive thing I can say is that you are breaking the law, you are out of your depth and there is a good chance you will cause harm to yourself unless you get someone in who knows what they are doing. Do it soon and they may rescue the electrical situation in the house before it becomes terminal.
Did my opening question ask for a response concerning the legality of the work that I am conducting? Where did I mention a 'friends house'? And again I ask, do you drive specifically to the limit on the public highway? If not, you're also breaking the law and risking your life every day.
Changing a CU would be 'out of my depth' and I wouldn't wish to attempt it, for this kind of work I'm trying to learn to do it the correct way.
Ignore me if you wish but perhaps its just an inconvient truth that you feel very uncomfortable when challenged over the legality of the work you are doing and tend to lash out accordingly.
I simply feel uncomfortable at the rude and patronising tone of your opening post, I am not 'out of my depth' and I am here to discover the correct way to achieve my goal.
If you're not willing to help me constructively in achieving that, or disapprove of my methods or consideration for safety, please find another thread or take a few minutes to consider why you are here on this D I Y electrics forum?
Its a shame that useful threads such as this are ruined by rude, patronising, arrogant know-it-alls such as yourself and BAS - you don't gain any respect with this approach.