if the generator has neutral and earth isolated i would advise joining them (isolated neutral and earth is a brilliant system for one or two tools but it renders rcds useless so isn't very smart for larger installations where the chance of a pair of faults is much higher)
then just connect the earth line from the generator to your earth system and add a rod so you aren't relying on the leccy cos earth if thier cable gets dug through etc
then just connect the earth line from the generator to your earth system and add a rod so you aren't relying on the leccy cos earth if thier cable gets dug through etc