Grief...

[Big Tone]

You mean my justification for an appropriate speed for the conditions and circumstances - which often means much less than a posted speed limit.

Please stop misrepresenting me. I hope you do not travel at the speed limit, or even near it, when you are going past children or where visibility is poor? (Rhetorical).

 

[Mickymoody]

This thread seems to be morphing into something else anyway so...

You claimed the right to speed in another thread and in your signature because you "do so safely". We grieve because speeding drivers refuse to accept that their action could and often does lead to the death of our loved ones, members of our families, not some unreachable celebrity.

This thread is about grief and what it means, so as I said, Sad then that you advocate speeding which leads to many of us grieving at the loss of a loved one. If you have a problem with that. Tough!!

If you had properly read and understood anything of what I said the first time around you would know that is not a fair representation of my position at all. I do not “advocate speeding”. I do, however, condemn speeds that are too fast and my issues are on how the limits are set and some of the methods used to enforce them.

As I have said, if you like I will re-ignite the old thread, if I can find it, or start a new thread where we can expand and clarify your concerns of what you perceive as my apparent homicidal nature or selfish disregard for other road users and pedestrians. Your condemnation of me here so far simply comes across as cheap sound bites.

Sorry for hijacking your thread. Just to clarify, my partners brothers didn't commit suicide, but died of natural causes, as my partner at 40 is the youngest of her clan. I evaluated the pills presented to me, and most are anti inflamatory, or anti-biotics, and convinced her that they would make her ill, rather than kill.

 

[Big Tone]

No harm no foul. I just think you should perhaps consider a line of pro-action which will help both you and others. I have some experience of these things in my professional life and other areas.

The two possibilities as I see them, (and from other posters comments), are that it is either real, in which case it’s not unreasonable to seek help, or it’s all a fabrication in which case you need to seek help.

The first point of contact would be your GP who would be able to direct you to a HCP, (Health Care Professional), who specialises in grief and bereavement. Prevention is better than cure so don’t wait until you, or your partner, break. That's the best advice I can give you I'm affraid.

Take good care.

Tony

 

[Mickymoody]

No harm no foul. I just think you should perhaps consider a line of pro-action which will help both you and others. I have some experience of these things in my professional life and other areas.

The two possibilities as I see them, (and from other posters comments), are that it is either real, in which case it’s not unreasonable to seek help, or it’s all a fabrication in which case you need to seek help.

The first point of contact would be your GP who would be able to direct you to a HCP, (Health Care Professional), who specialises in grief and bereavement. Prevention is better than cure so don’t wait until you, or your partner, break. That's the best advice I can give you I'm affraid.

Take good care.

Tony

Thanks Tony, my other halfs moodswings, and that of the people around her swing to extreme, x said y about z on FB, and now you are responsible, or her sons girlfriend saying you are gonna be a granny, by either x son or y son, or by someone else, WOULD drive someone mad. It's how I manage that, and that is obviouslly expressed within some of my posts, due to frustration, or the turn of the moon.

My lot is a feisty lot, but generally loving to me, but an outside source would send her crazy.

If she really wanted to end it all, then she knows I have a .22 rifle, and would perhaps use it, rather than threats about pills, that she know I know more about their effects than her. But maybe to be safe to deactivate my gun.

 

[spacecat]

@MM

Get another Bird.............SIMPLES

 

[ursamajor]

I have a .22 rifle

Why has someone emotionally unstable such as yourself got a gun? You should hand this in to the police at the earliest opportunity.

Edit: Unless of course this is yet another example of a romance to seek some kind of glory and attention seeking. For heavens sake moody, seek professional help.

Moderators - seriously I am worried that allowing this chap to post delusions of this nature on here is unhealthy for him. Please consider his position or at least keep a close eye on him.

 

[Mickymoody]

I have a .22 rifle

Why has someone emotionally unstable such as yourself got a gun? You should hand this in to the police at the earliest opportunity.

Edit: Unless of course this is yet another example of a romance to seek some kind of glory and attention seeking. For heavens sake moody, seek professional help.

Moderators - seriously I am worried that allowing this chap to post delusions of this nature on here is unhealthy for him. Please consider his position or at least keep a close eye on him.

Having a pellet gun isn't illegal. The breech bolt has been removed. I'm not unstable, my girl is. She has no idea how to load it.

 

[ursamajor]

I have a .22 rifle

Why has someone emotionally unstable such as yourself got a gun? You should hand this in to the police at the earliest opportunity.

Edit: Unless of course this is yet another example of a romance to seek some kind of glory and attention seeking. For heavens sake moody, seek professional help.

Moderators - seriously I am worried that allowing this chap to post delusions of this nature on here is unhealthy for him. Please consider his position or at least keep a close eye on him.

Having a pellet gun isn't illegal. The breech bolt has been removed. I'm not unstable, my girl is. She has no idea how to load it.

You never stated pellet gun It may not therefore be illegal, but in your case it is extremely unwise for you to have access to it due to your erratic and potentially dangerous imagination. I really think it would be wiser all round for you to deconstruct it entirely and get rid.

 

[LastMagicBean]

She has no idea how to load it.

Yeah but she might swallow it...???

 

[Mickymoody]

I have a .22 rifle

Why has someone emotionally unstable such as yourself got a gun? You should hand this in to the police at the earliest opportunity.

Edit: Unless of course this is yet another example of a romance to seek some kind of glory and attention seeking. For heavens sake moody, seek professional help.

Moderators - seriously I am worried that allowing this chap to post delusions of this nature on here is unhealthy for him. Please consider his position or at least keep a close eye on him.

Having a pellet gun isn't illegal. The breech bolt has been removed. I'm not unstable, my girl is. She has no idea how to load it.

You never stated pellet gun It may not therefore be illegal, but in your case it is extremely unwise for you to have access to it due to your erratic and potentially dangerous imagination. I really think it would be wiser all round for you to deconstruct it entirely and get rid.

I have disassembled the bolt action. Therefore ineffective. A .22 pellet gun, as used by the Chinese Army, would kill someone dead. The same gun without a bolt would kill nobody.

 

[ursamajor]

I have disassembled the bolt action. Therefore ineffective. A .22 pellet gun, as used by the Chinese Army, would kill someone dead. The same gun without a bolt would kill nobody.

In which case please get rid of the bolt permanently so that you yourself cannot re-assemble the gun. You're under a lot of pressure for a variety of reasons, and you may crack. Your romancing clearly indicates that you're slipping that way more and more. We don't want another Raoul Moat, with innocent bystanders getting hurt and grieving kids etc.

 

[Mickymoody]

I have disassembled the bolt action. Therefore ineffective. A .22 pellet gun, as used by the Chinese Army, would kill someone dead. The same gun without a bolt would kill nobody.

In which case please get rid of the bolt permanently so that you yourself cannot re-assemble the gun. You're under a lot of pressure for a variety of reasons, and you may crack. Your romancing clearly indicates that you're slipping that way more and more. We don't want another Raoul Moat, with innocent bystanders getting hurt and grieving kids etc.

get real! I love my partner more and more, not as you suggest less and less.

 

[ursamajor]

I have disassembled the bolt action. Therefore ineffective. A .22 pellet gun, as used by the Chinese Army, would kill someone dead. The same gun without a bolt would kill nobody.

In which case please get rid of the bolt permanently so that you yourself cannot re-assemble the gun. You're under a lot of pressure for a variety of reasons, and you may crack. Your romancing clearly indicates that you're slipping that way more and more. We don't want another Raoul Moat, with innocent bystanders getting hurt and grieving kids etc.

get real! I love my partner more and more, not as you suggest less and less.

It's not her sanity that's at question here Micky,

 

[Mickymoody]

I have disassembled the bolt action. Therefore ineffective. A .22 pellet gun, as used by the Chinese Army, would kill someone dead. The same gun without a bolt would kill nobody.

In which case please get rid of the bolt permanently so that you yourself cannot re-assemble the gun. You're under a lot of pressure for a variety of reasons, and you may crack. Your romancing clearly indicates that you're slipping that way more and more. We don't want another Raoul Moat, with innocent bystanders getting hurt and grieving kids etc.

get real! I love my partner more and more, not as you suggest less and less.

It's not her sanity that's at question here Micky,

More likely yours. As you don't have a clue what you are talking about.

 

[ursamajor]

It's not her sanity that's at question here Micky,

More likely yours. As you don't have a clue what you are talking about.

It's not me that has to keep making up a load of contradictory "realities" on this forum to try to gain credibility, including some cock and bull story regarding your partner (if indeed you really do have a partner), some pills and now out of the blue - a rifle which is really a pellet gun but which is also the Chinese army issue rifle.

Seriously, as an ex-psychiatric nurse, it is quite clear to me that you are in need of professional help. This isn't a dig nor a criticism.