To be fair it appears as though your mum was trying to help? Remember if parents care for their children (even when grown up) the desire to help and care doesn't go away.Had my mother over for a visit
I went away for a couple of days on a car thing
Whilst away her and her friend decided to get a skip in and clear rubbish out of the back garden
A sort of surprise for me !!! For when I came back
She threw all my scrap in the skip
Probably a grands worth
Said on the skip level load only so being a stickler for the rules she abided by the level load
Skip bloke turns up she explained to him that she may have to get another skip he asked her is it the same type of rubbish as is on skip
Yes she said
Well madam we can make an exception for you
My mother said he was decent kind man he even went to the trouble carrying the rubbish out to the skip for her
He was in a hurry and could not stop for a cup
Of tea but she gave him a tip
Hopefully you're able to laugh about it with your mum, in the grand scheme of things (pardon the pun) it's not important.