I am going to speak to the neighbour soon, and I am also pursuing the builder (through their surveyor) as it seems to me they have not done what they said they were going to do according to the party wall agreement (I read it as showing that the final ground level should be level with my floor level). The previous property which was knocked down was further away and there was a empty patch between our properties with a lower ground level.
My question is, what resolution would be suitable? Is some sort of French drain or soakaway or other drain appropriate, with coarse aggregate above? Or is the only solution lowering the ground level. Would the whole patio need to be lowered or just the current gravel/sand trench? Water currently runs off the patio into the gravel/sand when it rains.