Observer, somewhat bizarrely, I tentatively disagree with you regarding DoND. I agree with your analysis of the MH scenario, and your analysis of the DoND scenario certainly matches mine on this topic, but my rethink was sparked by a valid observation that jackpot made.
I've been thinking about this over the last few days, and have nearly come to a conclusion, which I hope to put into words and post here.
Pending that, I'd like to take this opportunity to thank you for your kind words, which are in stark contrast to the gloating and crowing displayed by those who think they've been in an argument and that they've won something.
It seems too simple but the logic is inescapable. Show me any other starting choice by which a 'always swap' strategy would lose.
(Obviously the 19:1 probability only come into play when all the 18 other 'losing' boxes have been eliminated. We're not asked to analyse the probability of that happening.)