oh get a life will you doo godders. its people like you who are causing a great deal of problems in this country, just listen to yourself!
spear, tatu ect dress as school girls, not to appeal to you fools its to appeal to people at school and just out of it.
nothing wrong with older men thinking they look nice either, its why they dress like it, i mean cummon, i bet alot of 40 year old go past 16/17/18 year old 6th formers and thing "ooo arr i wouldent mind" dosnt mean they are going to do anything, its just fun, its the 40 year old who look at 12 year old girls/boys and think it! singers in their 20s, dressing as 16 year olds/ sixthformers isnt the same.
i think you need to think more about your points beforehand
plus, why does it make you feel insecure? you have something to hide? the rest of us just get on with life....