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alsheating
Thank you.
That's bizarre, why would they not use the referees you gave them is typical.
Tell them that this person cannot provide you with a formal reference and the othe's are better suited.
I have an opposite problem, I have no referees, my last employer went broke and closed and is not available, and the one before that on my CV is fictitious.
I have every sympathy for you, thing's are hard, and I really hate the people who are working and think that there are so many job's available but we are too lazy or something along those line's.
I find relief in knowing this life will come to an end, and is not forever, and going by averages, I am 30, so not long left now, last night I think I had a mild heart attack, I can only sleep on my right side, when sleeping on the left side my heart keeps feling like it's stalling..so much so, I have to kep getting up and taking deep breaths, feels like my hearts stopped or something.....oh well an early death .
The one thing I cannot understand is why I feel somewhat embaressed about not being in work so much so that I cannot walk proudly and feel restricted as to where I can and cannot go....and end up spending most my day at home, and spend most my time alone.....I am not looking for any sympathy just a way out.
Good luck btw.
I find relief in knowing this life will come to an end, and is not forever, and going by averages, I am 30, so not long left now, last night I think I had a mild heart attack, I can only sleep on my right side, when sleeping on the left side my heart keeps feling like it's stalling..so much so, I have to kep getting up and taking deep breaths, feels like my hearts stopped or something.....oh well an early death .
Good luck btw.
my old CV used to have the names and contact details of 3 references, one my old electrical chargehand, one the general production manager and one my old scout leader as a character reference ( he's still friends with my dad who was also a scout leader and he in an MBE.. so it looked good on paper.. ).
now the stupid jobcenter people have re-written my CV and taken all of the references off it and just put "references available on request"..
Biggest problem with references in these days of compensation culture is,
Past employer gives you a poor reference,, You can take them to court.
Past employer gives you a great reference (new employer realises after a week that it was bull). New employer can take old employer to court.
A lot of companies are giving out standardised references, detailing what your duties were and what experience you have. Not saying whether you were any good at your previous job.
Sort of non committal reference really.
ALSHEATING...Thanks for highjacking my post to discuss your inability to get a job and rancid thoughts of suicide, either put up or shut up!
Apologies to Daz66 in advance as it's your thread but ....I just recieved a unsuccesful letter from Tesco, for shelf stacking, no body has the right now to tell me I am comfortable on the dole, and not willing to accept mundane work.