I bet if there was a news drought the papers would be very quick to criminalise your mate, and how many of the rest of us would know "but he's a great bloke, don't hate him!"
As you point out, being an alcoholic doesn't make you a bad person. It's a peculiar standard: ruin your own liver but don't ruin your second-chance liver. I would hope that I would never touch another drop should I suffer organ failure and be lucky enough to survive by whatever means.
A mate told me that he knows a guy who has been told he will probably lose his sight if he carries on drinking, yet he carries on and in a big way.
As you point out, being an alcoholic doesn't make you a bad person. It's a peculiar standard: ruin your own liver but don't ruin your second-chance liver. I would hope that I would never touch another drop should I suffer organ failure and be lucky enough to survive by whatever means.
A mate told me that he knows a guy who has been told he will probably lose his sight if he carries on drinking, yet he carries on and in a big way.