What about cutting holes in the felt to allow it to breath, thus saving on the cost of vents etc ?
I know the felt is there as secondary protection, but how often is it actually used? The tile is the only form of defense and if you have a leak, you get the tile sorted straight away.
I would go for this solution and add battons to the rafters to build them out so you can add in the correct level of insulation. Then add insulation to the underside of the rafters. You will loose about 1115mm of height from the room though (if you want it to pass regs).