In terms of neighbours-nope they aren’t having anything installed. In fact they weren’t keen to allow the works to go ahead on their property. It’s all happened as a result of the original smart meter installation. That engineer broke a seal or something and when national grid came to fix whatever he’d done they said it was a loop system and it had to be changed - wether they liked it or not.I would hazard a guess, that it's an accumulation of leakages, tripping the RCD, and that it has always been a problem - except it has gone unnoticed because their has never been a need for the supply to be turned off before. Turning them back on, one at a time, simply works around the tripping issue.
All the OP can do is tollerate the problem, or install a new consumer unit, supporting individual RCBO's for each circuit. None of which is the DNO's problem. I do agree there ought to have been an isolator installed on those tails, but they have been over-generous in running those tails in readiness for a new, repositioned consumer unit.
Possibly the reason for the 'unlooping' of the supply, is because the neighbour who the supply is shared with, is getting an EV, or a ASHP system?
National grid and their contractors then spent a couple of days laying cables in the field behind the houses from the pole, dug up part of the tarmac at my folks (back yard/garden) and put a big white box on the outside wall. Then put the new cables from that white box into the house.