What I've learnt from going through this, and what advice I was given over this weekend:
1) Always insist on full structural survey for structural diagrams (lifting up lots of floorboards etc), don't do it from architect diagrams alone. (I didn't even know this was available, until I hit this problem).
2) If you hit a problem where diagrams do not match, do not let the builder mitigate this - even if they think they know better - as otherwise you end up limbo situation on who owns the mistakes (where I am now). Stop the work, insist the structural engineer does a site visit and signs off on the updated approach. This way it's clear the structural engineers owns this 100%, if they do something wrong, you must give them the opportunity to rectify it, or they cannot own it.
1) Always insist on full structural survey for structural diagrams (lifting up lots of floorboards etc), don't do it from architect diagrams alone. (I didn't even know this was available, until I hit this problem).
2) If you hit a problem where diagrams do not match, do not let the builder mitigate this - even if they think they know better - as otherwise you end up limbo situation on who owns the mistakes (where I am now). Stop the work, insist the structural engineer does a site visit and signs off on the updated approach. This way it's clear the structural engineers owns this 100%, if they do something wrong, you must give them the opportunity to rectify it, or they cannot own it.