It is perfectly possible that all your damp problems are down to that leaking pipe and that over the next months or couple of years the damp will go - never the less read on.
You can understand the builders remark about driving rain, entering the building, making the cavity wall insulation wet and the wet being transferred to the inner wall, making it wet in turn and creating an easy escape for your heat.
There will only be a need for a sleeve where the air brick is in place to ventilate the room (and that will be obvious by it being matched by an inner air brick facing the outer air brick) otherwise the sleeve is unnecessary as the air vent is there to vent the cavity wall.
Having no insulation behind the air brick in the cavity does not give one much hope for the rest of the walls integrity? (the first cold spot)
I am not sure of the next paragraph. Why did he not insulate the walls in the extension? What connection has the wall with the wooden floor?
As a matter of fact, the idea of lots of air bricks under floors to improve the ventilation and therefore drying of joists and boards has gone out the window.
The situation where air is sucked under a floor by the passing wind, or is sucked in by the air inside the home rising and going out the windows, doors and other gaps in the home has been discredited.
There has been a realisation that the arrival of warm wet air under a home,that promptly condenses on the cold joists and leads to mould and wood rot is not the way to go.
The modern idea is that warm wet air must be kept outside the home and the move to Passive House standards in 2016 will resolve this.
The way to check (and you cannot beat doing things yourself) is to buy an infrared temperature gauge and a decent damp meter.
Sweep the walls with the temperature gun, you will be surprised how the temperatures will vary on different walls. Identify where the cold spots are (do this when you have had the heating on for some time and the temperature has settled)
Having identified the cold spots check them out with the damp meter and compare with elsewhere.
Another way, more expensive, is to have some thermal photos taken from the inside and outside (preferably on a cold day) these will give you a clear perfect picture of where the insulation is missing and where the damp patches are. You can then ask the installers for their comments.
The leaking pipe, if on the mains side would have delivered an enormous amount of water into the home.
Probably all your fears about damp are groundless as a large amount of water takes a long time to completely dry out. Possibly as long as three years.
Years ago, it was normal for a new built home to be left empty for a year to dry out, before a family took up residence.
Adding air bricks will lessen the smell, with outside air diluting the air in the kitchen, but, every time you add an air brick not only do you
add more dry air to the room (the air outside is nearly always dryer than indoors [in this country]) you also bring in cold air and loose your warm air, adding to the cost of heating your home.
The indications are that you do have a wooden suspended floor (by virtue of the air bricks) but do take a look (smash one of the air bricks below the floor and take a look from the outside)
block it up afterwards to stop small creatures making a home indoors.
Add some ventilation, see above re 2016 and the move to controlled mechanical ventilation.
However, we all breath out totally saturated breath and tend to sweat, this water vapour adds about 1.5 litres of water vapour to our home per person every 24 hours. Small children an animals being more active add more, old people add less. This water vapour plus that from washing needs to be vented to the outside and bathroom and kitchen extractor fans solve part of the problem and part open windows for a short time every day will control the rest.
Unfortunately, open windows can be forgotten and the amount of ventilation will greatly vary greatly depending on the wind.
Never the less a permanently open air brick/vent will cost you a great deal of money and controlled venting by opening windows is better.
Why did you have the work done on the loft?
What did you hope to achieve?
I believe that information is important, it may not be what you want to read but, at the end of the day you are aware of further possibilities and can research and make your mind up.