Only way to do this with vaillant controls as I see it is to use a Vaillant 430 WC controller with a VR61 mixer module and 2 VR10s. This would be an excellent combination of controls, but....expensive and needs to be installed ideally by someone who understands the setup.
the only way, means the only way. You cannot use a 360 with 2 zones in any way shape or form. it will not work, not properly anyway. You will never be able to have completely seperate control over both zones.
Either do what I suggested or scrap the 360.