I was rear ended in September 2021 by a young kid, who had pulled out of his drive, less than half a mile back, after I drove past. He was not tail gating at the time I started to gently brake for stopped traffic ahead I had just reached under 40mph as I came round a gentle curve. A look in my rear-view mirror to see if the car behind was slowing in response and, to my horror, he was rapidly approaching at about 40mph whilst looking down at something in his lap/foot well. Knowing he was going to hit me, I braced myself against the impact by gripping my steering wheel and pushing myself back against my seat. A split second before he hit I saw the look of horror on his face as he tried to stop. He shunted my tow bar under my car, and two garages, plus my insurance company after seeing the dashcam footage and stills I took, said it would probably be a right off.
It took over 3 months, but the car got repaired. On the day, I thought I was just shook up a bit and took 2 days off work, (accident happened Wednesday, I had an x-ray at hospital on Thursday as felt stiff around neck & shoulder. Told no breaks, just soft tissue damage and 'maybe' a touch of whiplash). Told by boss to stay off Friday and come in Monday. Working in the office on Monday, (still feeling a bit stiff), and get a phone call from my wife to say Head Radiologist was reviewing last weeks' x-rays and I have actually got a fractured clavicle, (collar bone). Three weeks off work with my arm in a rigid sling and still suffering with my shoulder. Finally got £4,768. for it last month.
Roll back to January 2023, just over 15 months after that accident. Taking my wife to A&E at 7.00am on a wet and raining morning. Roads were single track in each direction as it was on the fringes of the town. Come to a roundabout and have to stop and wait. Another car pulls up behind and I notice he too is turning left as we both have indicators flashing. I get to move off, he has to wait for another car to go past coming from the right, that was turning right at the roundabout. This is all taking place in a 30mph area. After turning left there is another roundabout about 50 yards away and, as I was going straight, I kept to the left, no indicators flashing. Approaching the roundabout from the right, was an ambulance with lights and sirens on. Thinking he may be going to the hospital I presumed he would be turning right so stopped to give him right of way. Ambulance actually turned left on way to job. Suddenly there was an almighty bang and scraping as the guy who had been behind at the first roundabout, hit my rear offside corner with the right-hand side of his Jaguar, (think it was an XJ6 or something). Dash cam footage retrieved by the police from his car showed he hit me at 54mph. How the hell do you get to 54mph within 50 yards! As a result, my wife, who already has a spinal cage inside her neck, suffered severe neck injuries which have left her in constant pain, (more so than she suffered before), and she now has 'hidden migraines'. She does not get the headaches, instead she loses her ability to speak, or speak properly, for up to an hour or more. When this happens, it looks as though she is suffering from a stroke, as when her speech does start to return, she sounds like a 3 year old learning to read. We are still awaiting the outcome of her claim for that. Oh, and both cars were a total write off as a result.
These days when someone gets up my ar$e I simply ease off the pedal and let them get past at the first opportunity. I've always driven to the two second rule.
(Sorry for such a long post).