porn widow

[HOGGY952]

I heard on the news last week that in Israel there are a lot of cases where married women are asking for divorce because their husband is spending too much time watching porn (internet, DVD, VOD, etc.).
I find it hard to believe that these women would go to extreme measures like divorcing their husband, just because he needs visual stimulation in order to sustain their marriage.
Don't they realize that they are not the spring chickens like when they got married, and that marriage life does put a lot of pressure and stress on both husband and wife, and if their husbands needs to ease the stress a little bit, they should be more understanding of their needs.
It is not like he is being unfaithful with another woman (well, some men would), and if watching porn helps him to keep his sexual appetite for a little bit longer, then she also get the benefits in bed.
Do they prefer that he takes dangerous chemical pills like Viagra, instead of getting erection with visual stimulation?
On the other hand, husbands don't go to extreme measures because their wives like reading all those romantic novels or watching romantic TV series that last for ages. Apparently this gives them mental stimulation and what is the harm in this?
If you are single, then count your blessings that there is no one looking over your shoulder and getting upset about what you watch.

 

[dextrous]

Who knows the women's reasons for sure. Could be they are concerned that women who partake in porn are being treated in such a degrading way (in their eyes, 'cos this is open for quite a large, or mass debate ) and worry about how the husband views them, or it could be that they are worried that money spent on pornography could be better spent elsewhere - not that I'm sterotying or anything

Or maybe, as you imply, they are jealous. Or possibly they believe, as some on here may advocate, that thinking about sex with someone else is an act of infidelity.

"Easy c u m, easy go" would seem to be an appropriate summary for such divorces.

 

[scatmanjohn]

Don't they realize that they are not the spring chickens like when they got married,

Makes me laugh every time i here this one.

Its usually said by guys who expect the missus to be like a porn star while they are an over weight/stincking couch slob.

 

[Thermo]

the man doth protest too much

 

[wotan]

Possibly it's because they can't get their head around the concept of their husband having pleasure with anything other than themselves.
They want total control..mind and body.

 

[Steve69the69Gas]

Blo*dy tell her why


See how long you live




Btw I live on my own = bliss

 

[securespark]

HOG:

You get home to find your wife watching well-hung men on her PC.

What is your genuine first reaction?

 

[tim west]

HOG:What is your genuine first reaction?

probably worrying about competing for size?

 

[LastMagicBean]

HOG:You get home to find your wife watching well-hung men on her PC.

What is your genuine first reaction?

Must buy myself some new boxers...?

 

[conny]

HOG:

You get home to find your wife watching well-hung men on her PC.

What is your genuine first reaction?

Hmmm, he's a big boy!

 

[HOGGY952]

sign him up for a movie and make a fortune...

 

[HOGGY952]

Its usually said by guys who expect the missus to be like a porn star while they are an over weight/stinking couch slob.

I don't believe in this degrading nonsense.
The gorgeous models from Europe, go for auditions out of their own will. They have the body that any woman would die for (also men).
They get the job and start shooting the films and get paid good money.
What is so degrading about that?

Maybe they don't have the good fortune of being able to go to college or university and get a degree so they can have a better career in their lives, but they have their beautiful bodies as their best assets and they make the most out of it, for at least the lifespan of a porn actress which is one or two years at most, as there is always more models going to auditions.

I tell you what is degrading in my eyes.........
It is women who lead men (in particular their husbands) to believe that they are doing something wrong by watching pornography and lead them to sneak on occasions to watch it on their TV or the internet.
Instead, those husbands should have a good long chat with their wives, tell them that they are just normal people and there is nothing sick about their behavior.

As for money spent on porn, it is a small fraction of how much money women spend on their own clothing, shoes, hairdos, beauty stuff, mobile cost (god, they can talk for ever), etc.

If anybody would like to start a thread for a debate, then please do so. Just give us a link.

 

[Thermo]

do you want some salt and vinegar for the chip?

 

[kevplumb]

id be terrified if my other half caught me


mind she is 4000 miles away

 

[Space cat]

I was sure I posted on this thread yesterday but it's gone. Maybe I forgot to click on Submit ---

Do they prefer that he takes dangerous chemical pills like Viagra, instead of getting erection with visual stimulation?

Rolling between the palms of the hands is supposed to be a good way of obtaining an erection but wouldn't it be better to accept the fact that he just 'isn't up for it'.

The idea that men are always ready for sex, any time and anywhere, is a myth. We have our off days. Moreover, the stress of being expected to perform can seriously impair the ability. Teach him instead what hands and mouths are for - and remember that this works both ways.

As for pornography, I've had little interest in it since 1966 when pages torn out of Playboy were eagerly passed around school. Some of the models were worth a second look but then, as now, they were just doing their job. For the most part, they had no interest in sex whatsoever and it showed. Give me a real woman every time.