Susie, I am sorry that you feel that your relative has been ripped off.
Unlike some others I feel that he has been overcharged BUT as he willingly agreed to these charges and paid with cash then there is little that you will probably be able to do. D. Hailsham used to give good advice on these situations but he is silent tonight.
I see this so often! It arises solely because in this democratic age we have to give everyone the right to look after their own affairs. He chose to take charge of the situation, did not call you and ended up in my view overcharged.
The law does not help you either, because even at 89 he still has the right to do what HE wants to unless you can get him sectioned under the Mental Health Act 1931. He can give all his money to charity or Battersea Digs Home if he wants to. ( I am not happy with them! They refused to let me have my dog back until the next day just so they could charge £19 B&B ! )
In any case he is probably totally happy with the situation. He must like to still be dealing with things.
To avoid ever getting into that situation I normally never deal directly with anyone over 70 and ask that a son or daughter come along to be present. But then I am a little unusual because I like to give good value for money and never rip anyone off. I did make an exception with a 93 y.o. lady because I was referred to her by her neighbour and she was still very awake and plays bridge twice a week.
Tonight an accountant friend was telling about trying to get Santanda to give him the sort code of one of his clients who was born in 1903. They refused saying they must speak to the client even though he is 107 and died a few months ago!
Tony Glazier
Unlike some others I feel that he has been overcharged BUT as he willingly agreed to these charges and paid with cash then there is little that you will probably be able to do. D. Hailsham used to give good advice on these situations but he is silent tonight.
I see this so often! It arises solely because in this democratic age we have to give everyone the right to look after their own affairs. He chose to take charge of the situation, did not call you and ended up in my view overcharged.
The law does not help you either, because even at 89 he still has the right to do what HE wants to unless you can get him sectioned under the Mental Health Act 1931. He can give all his money to charity or Battersea Digs Home if he wants to. ( I am not happy with them! They refused to let me have my dog back until the next day just so they could charge £19 B&B ! )
In any case he is probably totally happy with the situation. He must like to still be dealing with things.
To avoid ever getting into that situation I normally never deal directly with anyone over 70 and ask that a son or daughter come along to be present. But then I am a little unusual because I like to give good value for money and never rip anyone off. I did make an exception with a 93 y.o. lady because I was referred to her by her neighbour and she was still very awake and plays bridge twice a week.
Tonight an accountant friend was telling about trying to get Santanda to give him the sort code of one of his clients who was born in 1903. They refused saying they must speak to the client even though he is 107 and died a few months ago!
Tony Glazier