It is not a case of proving people wrong, it is a case of what is right and what is wrong, this thread started with someone asking can they run the hot water on a combi without the heating side connected, we all said no as the heating side needs to be full of water to heat the hot water, or do you disagree with this BAHCO, it was also said that the boiler needs to dissipate the heat within the heat exchanger once the hot tap is turned off, to do this it will need some kind of heat sink
You say your boiler is a Vaillant well try contacting them and tell them that you want to run your boiler temporally the way you said you have, I bet I know what the answer will be
The professionals on this site give the correct advise, we only suggest the correct way of doing things, if your boiler worked with just the small amount of water that would of been in the boiler if you only filled the heating side within the boiler, you would of put the boiler and pump under excessive heat and if Vaillant were aware you would certainly lose the warranty on the boiler