Watercourse, ditch, stream etc. Septic tank outfall should always go into the ground to give the final level of treatment, as the final effluent is far from pure. Have seen some going into a ditch, but these are the ones the Environment Agency will be jumping on and forcing to upgrade to a package plant.
Rainwater should never go into a septic tank, in times of heavy rainfall it'll stir everything up, and possibly wash solids into the soakaway, which will soon bung it up. Modern living produces a lot more grey water than 60 years ago, dishwashers, automatic washing machines and people are bathing more often. Often these tanks are now overwhelmed by the flow going into them, which far exceeds anything they were designed for. Remember, every drop of water you put down the drain will go to the tank, and out again. A 'Cesspool' which is basically a holding tank for sewage, has to be pumped out when full, (very rarely used due top this fact), but as a minimum now I think they have to be 30000 litre capacity for a single domestic property. That sounds a lot but wont take long to fill. (5000 toilet flushes at 6litres a flush!)
Assuming there is not a ditch you could look at discharging the treated effluent into, then a soakaway is the only option. (Check with the Environment Agency for any permissions or licences you may need to discharge.) Keep it separate from the rainwater soakaway, you don't want the tank backfilling with rainwater in wet periods.
If you've not installed one before I wouldn't recommend doing it unless you're totally confident, drainlaying to connect the tank up is easy enough, but installing the tank will need to be done in accordance with the manufacturers specifications, or you'll not only render any guarantee void, there is also the risk of damage to the tank, or in extreme circumstances I've known them 'pop' back out the ground after being emptied as the water table in the surrounding soil was so high and the tank hadn't been installed correctly for the ground conditions!
Most, if not all, package plants will need a power supply too. The Biodisc has rotating paddles, the Biotec uses a compressor to bubble air through media to assist with breakdown of bacteria.