To everyone (Jeo-90 do not bother reading this)
“I do not like the word smacking it is used by adults trying to justify hitting a child”
An adult that hits a child is acting like a child (they should try and act like an adult)
As soon as you have to use violence on your child the child has won (you’re no more than a bully), you as the adult should be more intelligent than the child and violence would not be necessary.
Most adults that hit there children usually do it when they are agree,
And when you hit a child when you are agree you yourself are acting like a child, Also when you hit that child under anger it usually has more aggression.
All you adults that act like children to deal with there children’s behaviour problems,
Calm down and talk to the child,
It can take sometime but stay calm and be patient,
If it takes 1min 2mins 5mins 10mins 20mins 30mins 60mins etc, etc,
Stay calm and in control.
Do not be tempted to use the quick violence approach it does no good to you or the child. Educate your child by talking to them not by violence.
My youngest is the most stubborn person I have every came across (even more stubborn than Joe-90), if you stay calm and in control you will get better results.
Scott
Moderator note
Once again this topic has descended into various forms of abuse, losing sight of the debate and the rules of the forum. Once again its locked