I would use a proper contactor from a trusted brand, and leave the chinesium to switching the contactor supply.
Infact, this is exactly what i've done with my EV charger. A Sonoff device switches the supply to the controller in the charge unit (which controls the main contactor), but never actually sees any of the charging current.
Get yourself a contactor from a trusted make (schneider/merlin gerin, hager, eaton etc), install it into a suitable enclosure, and use something like a Sonoff to switch it on and off.
Infact, this is exactly what i've done with my EV charger. A Sonoff device switches the supply to the controller in the charge unit (which controls the main contactor), but never actually sees any of the charging current.
Get yourself a contactor from a trusted make (schneider/merlin gerin, hager, eaton etc), install it into a suitable enclosure, and use something like a Sonoff to switch it on and off.