I think you are correct, the government is living in cloud 9 if it thinks EV charging can be done without a major up grade, we started with the national grid in 1933 and last hamlet June 2003 Cwm Brefi, in Ceredigion, so looking at history we can see likely time scale 70 years.
However as it stands the DNO can turn off EV chargers, it does not seem a good idea I would agree, to walk out to your car and find not enough fuel for the day, across the road to where I did live the Milk man decided to get an electric Kango van, range 100 miles, round 68 miles, so should have been no problem, however quite a few times one would see the van on side of road awaiting recovery where he had not made it home.
Why it did not make it every so often I don't know for sure, but if once a week he used the petrol pick-up, he had no problem, so it would seem being plugged in 11 am to 4 am was not enough to fully recharge it.
I see the amount the two charging points in the village are being used, just outside where I work one day a week, when I moved here there was one guy who visited his mother in the village used it, now rare not to see a car on charge, it is the only 22 kW charge point in miles, and can only charge 2 cars at a time, not seen anyone queueing up yet, but next charge point is only 7 kW so you can see why people come here first.
The whole concept of EV needs re-thinking, my e-bike can take me around 20 miles with a battery light enough to take it into the house to recharge it, 12 Ah 48 volt. So a car doing 100 miles with 4 people should need 20 times that size, but in fact it is many times that size because of all the reinforced protection around the battery and people, cars are so heavy they use well over the power required because of the weight.
There are no crumple zones etc around a cyclist be it push or motor, they know they are vulnerable so ride carefully, and use same roads as car users, there was once a survey done on insurance claims on different cars to see which car had least accidents, it was the Reliant three wheeler, clearly not the safest car, worst was Volvo.
Yes I am one of those who drives around in a 4 x 4, it was bought to tow the caravan, now gone, I also have a light petrol car Honda Jazz, and because the big one is diesel and little one petrol they do same MPG. So I use the big one far more than I should.
As if I had an electric car, then if not charged over night, I would simply use another car that day, but most people don't have spare cars.